Boundaries

If you allow people to compromise your boundaries, don't expect anyone to respect them. People will only respect your boundaries as much as you do. Without strict enforcement, your boundaries are nothing more than empty words. - M.J. Verdun

Developing a ne…

Developing a new relationship is a process of discovering the unique thoughts, feelings, perspectives, and experiences that are inspired by the unique chemistry between two different people. A relationship is a process of DISCOVERING your compatibility with someone. It's not meant to be a scripted ritual that is governed by the norms of one's culture, … Continue reading Developing a ne…

Integrity’s Dilemma…

How does one adapt to a lifestyle that requires deception and lies and still remain an honest person? How does one honor one person with the truth without offending another whose peace of mind depends on telling the lie? One will cry "Disloyalty!" and lose trust depending on the decision, while the other feels secure, … Continue reading Integrity’s Dilemma…

The most effect…

The most effective way I know of to ruin an amazing connection is to keep secrets and tell lies. When the truth finally comes out, all you'll have on your hands is an uninspiring love affair. If you're lucky enough to find a magical connection, protect it from deception or risk losing it all. - … Continue reading The most effect…

Walk Away…and Believe

If the person that you love is unwilling to appreciate who you are and everything you do for them, and you've given them a clear understanding of what you need and ample opportunity to give it to you, then they have proven themselves to be unworthy of you. They have proven that they care far … Continue reading Walk Away…and Believe

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How could you so easily fit into the missing spaces of my personality...so easily massaging the ghost limbs that have long since been cut away? And just like an amputee, I often get misty sensations from nerve endings that are no longer wired up to the ole network. You are the great brown hope, with … Continue reading Untitled

Selfish Indiscretion

[Written in 2002 after discovering that I was in love with a girl who was already engaged] If I hadn`t been stealing time from whom it was entitled; thinking it was free to have, unaware I had a rival Maybe if sensations shared had not been shared with him, the way we sinned would be … Continue reading Selfish Indiscretion