Integrity’s Dilemma…

How does one adapt to a lifestyle that requires deception and lies and still remain an honest person? How does one honor one person with the truth without offending another whose peace of mind depends on telling the lie? One will cry "Disloyalty!" and lose trust depending on the decision, while the other feels secure, … Continue reading Integrity’s Dilemma…

Honor and Creation

Honor is the the way of human intention becoming human creation...the link between them and the structure of their interaction. If I don't honor my intention of creating something by following through with the idea, it doesn't get created. It remains merely an idea in my head. If I don't honor my word, what would … Continue reading Honor and Creation

A Mind Without Judgment Inspires a Spirit of Unconditional Love

What I'm describing throughout this explanation is a profoundly different perspective from which to view the world; the paradigm of awareness/alignment vs. the paradigm of judgment. I believe that, if adopted the world over, it will eliminate all division between cultures, end all wars driven by ideological differences, end all negativity within social relationships, inspire … Continue reading A Mind Without Judgment Inspires a Spirit of Unconditional Love

Disqualified! Below the belt…

When having a disagreement or debate, the moment you go from challenging the person's ideas to insulting the person herself, you reveal your ignorance, your lack of intelligence, and your arrogant refusal to acknowledge the possibility that, in spite of all of the reasons you believe that you're right, you could be dead wrong. Being … Continue reading Disqualified! Below the belt…

Public Embarrassment, Public Apology

If you wrongly accuse someone of something or unjustly embarrass them in any way in front of an audience, you need to apologize to that person in front of the same audience. A private apology does not resolve the negativity of a public humiliation. Only a public apology will do. It's only right that you … Continue reading Public Embarrassment, Public Apology