Developing a ne…

Developing a new relationship is a process of discovering the unique thoughts, feelings, perspectives, and experiences that are inspired by the unique chemistry between two different people. A relationship is a process of DISCOVERING your compatibility with someone. It's not meant to be a scripted ritual that is governed by the norms of one's culture, … Continue reading Developing a ne…

Love is not a f…

Love is not a feeling/noun. Love is an action/verb. I am literally and actively loving another person when I give them my time, attention, affection, consideration, focus, effort, support, and sensitivity...regardless of how I emotionally feel about them. Love is not a magical emotion that is dependent on another person. Love is a conscious act … Continue reading Love is not a f…

Integrity’s Dilemma…

How does one adapt to a lifestyle that requires deception and lies and still remain an honest person? How does one honor one person with the truth without offending another whose peace of mind depends on telling the lie? One will cry "Disloyalty!" and lose trust depending on the decision, while the other feels secure, … Continue reading Integrity’s Dilemma…